Loving from the lifeboat

Loving from the lifeboat Many of us are finding ourselves on lifeboats. Our past ships have sunk, burned, or been hijacked. We are sailing away, happy to have made it out ok, healing and resting before we start building the next ship. Some of us need a long time on...

The gift of service love

The gift of service love Service love is the love between a caretaker and the cared for. This love happens when there are extreme imbalances between the partners. With alcoholics, addicts, handicapped, abused, and narcissist partners. There is a love you give but you...

Suffering

Suffering We have all asked the “Why me?” question before. Why me and not someone else? Why did I have to experience this? Why am I so unfortunate or so lucky? I know many healers and psychics who are quick to answer these questions. It’s because in a past life you...

Flowering

Flowering We are capable of flowering – of reaching a florescent state. Of opening up wide – blooming. Of forever bursting with creative potential and possibility in every direction.  A flowering state is one of complete availability. And we have the potential...

Attachment

Attachment Many people hear the word attachment and are immediately turned off – in the spiritual world detachment can lead people into many extremes, from vows of poverty, to celibacy, to fasting and back again. When we talk about cultivating a grounded spiritual...