Close to the bone

Close to the bone As a healer, people hire me to help them see their blind spots. I am paid to be detached. A detached being has potential to comprehend completely and understand the complex mysteries behind all relationships. There is no emotional whirlwind to get...

A new kind of love

A new kind of love Transformation is a word we have become numb to. It slipped into our vocabulary in the 60’s and 70’s, and now it almost has no meaning. We hear “transform yourself” every day. In advertising new fitness routines, to food, to clothing, to phones. And...

Our privilege

Our Privilege It is a privilege to feel the kind of fear that comes with doing deep dives into yourself. I have had other people hold the space for me to truly feel my anger and fear. Somehow, I mustered up the courage to let it come through. And as terrible as it...

Attachment

Attachment Many people hear the word attachment and are immediately turned off – in the spiritual world detachment can lead people into many extremes, from vows of poverty, to celibacy, to fasting and back again. When we talk about cultivating a grounded spiritual...

Hunger

Hunger Often, there was poison in the pocket of his hand. And if it didn’t kill him outright in a hotel room somewhere, it would deepen into his life, until it poisoned every breathing second of it. I believed he cared…about himself, or me…anyone. But he always wanted...

Your Roar: Honoring Anger

Your Roar: Honoring Anger We all have a roar. It is the voice of your warrior. In order to share the gift of you completely, the most vulnerable parts of you must trust your warrior – you must have a developed roar. You know when the roar is appropriate and when it is...