Shadow in Relationship:

Navigating Relational Complexity with Grace

A three month online course with Shelby Robbins and Cat Gelinas

Relationships are a reflection of our internal world. When we’re unaware of the hidden dynamics running in our unconscious, we tend to experience the same relationship patterns and pitfalls over and over again.

Ever notice that we regularly have similar issues come up in relationships?  There might be different versions with different people, but the theme is often familiar. 

In this course, we will be looking under the hood of the human machinery to see what’s really going on.  We’ll dismantle triggers, projections, and beliefs that are creating our experience of others and ourselves.

We take off the colored glasses and get more in touch with unfiltered reality. Here we are empowered to create new relationship dynamics that are in support of our health and fulfillment. 

Discover clarity and freedom in relationship through understanding how humans operate. We’ll dive into our unconscious together, create space in challenging relationships, learn tangible skill-building for dismantling shadow in relationship, relational frameworks, and in the moment coaching during this 3-month online course.

 

Dear Friend,

Is life calling you to step up in relationship?

Are you inspired to step out and participate with like-minded learners at the cutting edge of relational fulfillment? 

Would you like to embark on a growth-minded, spiritual path doing work you love that’s based on the most advanced knowledge about relationships on the planet?

If so, you’ve come to the right place. Relationship skills are in higher demand than ever – leading experts predict that relational skill is one of the fastest growing skills needed to thrive in the modern world. In fact, the movement’s already started!

Let me explain.

Despite the billions of dollars poured into all kinds of programs to keep us healthy, traditional approaches to relationship problems aren’t working. Here are some sobering facts:

56% of adults claim that they are not happy with their current romantic life.

The online dating industry generates $1.8 billion annually

15 million adults suffer from social anxiety in the U.S

Reports of loneliness are on the rise in adolescents 

 When we fall in love, our new beloved zooms right up to our top five, often with catastrophic consequences for some of our deepest relationships.

The bottom line is that we’re not getting healthier.  Our solutions to these problems haven’t worked. It’s time for a change. We need to shift our paradigm and go beyond the failed methods of the past.

We need to reach a new realm where relationships are no longer about settling, fear, and depression, but rather a source of vibrancy and joy. 

 

 

Ultimately, it is the relationship we have with ourselves that most greatly affects our relationships with everyone and everything. The things we judge, neglect, or avoid in ourselves project outward onto others and distorts our relationships. Problems start to happen when we don’t examine where our beliefs come from and why these dynamics developed. If we lose sight of deeper aspects of ourselves and neglect that relationship to Self – emotions can overwhelm, our perceptions get distorted and the world may begin to look like a complicated, limited place. In this course, you’ll gain the clarity and confidence to express your true needs, boundaries, and style in relationships and break free of your conditioning and auto-pilot operating systems.

 

Shadow in Relationship Includes:

6 Live 2-Hour Coaching Calls

Weekly Personal Inquiry Practices

Techniques for looking into your unconscious and mapping your relationship dynamics

Access to our collection of best relationship practices, tips, and resources

Deeply personalized coaching in our private Facebook and Voxer group

Supportive online community to share our experiences on this journey together

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ultimately, it is the relationship we have with ourselves that most greatly affects our relationships with everyone and everything. The things we judge, neglect, or avoid in ourselves project outward onto others and distorts our relationships. Problems start to happen when we don’t examine where our beliefs come from and why these dynamics developed. If we lose sight of deeper aspects of ourselves and neglect that relationship to Self – emotions can overwhelm, our perceptions get distorted and the world may begin to look like a complicated, limited place. In this course, you’ll gain the clarity and confidence to express your true needs, boundaries, and style in relationships and break free of your conditioning and auto-pilot operating systems.

 

Shadow in Relationship Includes:

6 Live 2-Hour Coaching Calls

Weekly Personal Inquiry Practices

Techniques for looking into your unconscious and mapping your relationship dynamics

Access to our collection of best relationship practices, tips, and resources

Deeply personalized coaching in our private Facebook and Voxer group

Supportive online community to share our experiences on this journey together

 

 

 

 

 

“My critical inner voice is not so critical anymore. And I don’t think I could have made a video like this, with confidence, before taking this course. “

 

Heather Ribbs, Energy Healer

 

 

Live Video Dates and Curriculum

 
Video 1: Relationship by Design 

September 12th, 10:00am-12:00pm MT

Video 2: Shadow in Relationship

September 19th, 10:00am-12:00pm MT

Video 3: Shadow in Relationship Systems

October 10th, 10:00am-12:00pm MT

Video 4: The Alchemy of Desire

October 17th, 10:00am-12:00pm MT

Video 5: Empowered Boundary Setting

November 7th, 10:00am-12:00pm MT

Video 6: Q/A + Conscious Endings 

November 21st, 10:00am-12:00pm MT

 

 

Meet Our Fabulous Co-Instructor, Cat Gelinas!

“Relationship to me has been the main source of development. 

I believe that we’re not meant to be solitary creatures or avoid our painful, emotional experiences. 

It is through relationship and risk that my relationships to Self, joy, and intimacy

have expanded.   Relationships are a nourishing and integral part of my healing journey.”

Cat Gelinas started her path to personal development in 2005.  She started having many life-changing shifts that lead to growth, happiness, and healing that she became passionate and committed to bringing that power and freedom to others.  

She’s trained in Family & Systemic Constellations – healing inherited ancestral trauma in families and systemic shadow, energy medicine, consciousness development, and authentic relational skills.  Powerful new avenues of healing opened up and the knowledge of how to navigate consciousness in a way that facilitates expansion and ease.  

 

Today, she blends all of her training together to create a unique experience of healing and discovery that brings her clients clarity, power, and freedom.  

 

 

  

 

This is exactly what I'm looking for.

“We ended up creating our own support group. The class was with people who I now have ongoing relationships with – I created more friendships by being in this class”

Shadow in Relationship is for you if….

  • Historically, this relationship stuff has been really painful and hard… you’re wanting easeful and supportive relationships and ready to do something new. 

  • You are longing for your people…knowing where and how you can be completely yourself and be accepted. 

     

  • You are interested in truth, knowing yourself, and more deeply understanding our unique human condition.

     

  • You’d love to work with Shelby and Cat directly, and aren’t in a place to make a commitment to private coaching just yet. 

  • You’re wanting to be all of you! You’re tired of care-taking, defending, hiding, or peacekeeping in relationships.

  • You’re single, dating, in a relationship, or something else altogether. 

Shadow in Relationship is for you if….

  • Historically, this relationship stuff has been really painful and hard… you’re wanting easeful and supportive relationships and ready to do something new. 

  • You are longing for your people…knowing where and how you can be completely yourself and be accepted. 

     

  • You are interested in truth, knowing yourself, and more deeply understanding our unique human condition.

     

  • You’d love to work with Shelby and Cat directly, and aren’t in a place to make a commitment to private coaching just yet. 

  • You’re wanting to be all of you! You’re tired of care-taking, defending, hiding, or peacekeeping in relationships.

  • You’re single, dating, in a relationship, or something else altogether. 

For me…

Relationship is one of the fiercest ways to evolve.

Together, we can’t help but sky-rocket our development.

Through relationship, we change our world.

 

What if….

We all had access to sustainable strategies to get

our social needs met.

 

What if….

Relationships were less of a war zone of who’s “right”

and “wrong”, and instead, a place for us to come into curiosity

and growth together.

 

What if…

We had so much freedom to be ourselves with each other,

we couldn’t help but transform

I love teaching this course with my partner in crime,

Cat Gelinas, and can’t wait to share in the magic with you…

 

Love,

Shelby 

  

 

For me…

Relationship is one of the fiercest ways to evolve.

Together, we can’t help but sky-rocket our development.

Through relationship, we change our world.

 

What if….

We all had access to sustainable strategies to get

our social needs met.

 

What if….

Relationships were less of a war zone of who’s “right”

and “wrong”, and instead, a place for us to come into curiosity

and growth together.

 

What if…

We had so much freedom to be ourselves with each other,

we couldn’t help but transform

I love teaching this course with my partner in crime,

Cat Gelinas, and can’t wait to share in the magic with you…

 

Love,

Shelby 

  

 

WOW! This is exactly what I'm looking for.

Here Are Some Proven Results You Can Expect!

You experience real, sustainable transformation

You have a new and promising outlook on your relationships

You feel more confident and content

Your income grows more steadily and predictably

You become part of a new and exciting movement that’s sweeping the planet

You feel uplifted knowing that you’re doing good work in the world

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What Sets this Training Apart From Others?

We know that there are other health coaching programs, and we don’t claim to be right for everyone. We want you to be sure that this is the best training for you,  based on your professional goals and the kind of work that you want to do in the world.

Here’s what sets us apart:

 If you’re fascinated by relationships and communication challenges, but want to go beyond simple generic techniques – if you actually want to dive into why you have relationship issues in the first place, and really get to the heart of your challenges – then, quite simply, you need this information.

In this course, we’re all about making real and lasting changes in people’s lives – and we’ve developed the tools and protocols that work when it comes to transformation and healing that’s truly sustainable.

 So many coaches, therapists and practitioners know the difficulties in actually getting clients to follow through with recommendations they suggest. You can be a psychotherapist with all the latest science at your fingertips, but if you actually want to create changes that you suggest – meaning you want to be effective – result oriented coaching techniques that we teach will make all the difference.

I’m sure you know people who’ve tried every relationship course out there and still haven’t seen the results they were looking for. That might even describe you. What we offer is something very different: a framework for getting to the source of any relationship challenge and addressing it from the inside out. Yes, in this Training you’ll get relational science, coaching strategies, and practical skills. But you’ll get something that no one else is talking about, something that will give you a real edge in relationship: a profound understanding of relationship psychology.

 

More Success Stories…

 

 

“I have met few people that are as talented and gifted as Shelby. I came to her nearly a year ago seeking out her expertise with issues in trauma, life purpose, depression, and boundaries, that had been severely crippling my quality of life. She has truly been a ray of sunshine for me and has helped me through the darkest time in my life. I’ve had a wide array of emotions, false beliefs, and shadow present that she was able to effortlessly help me heal through. I’ve loved working with Shelby and I have no intentions of slowing down with her!”

Alli P.

Energy Healer

Shelby is an extremely intuitive, witty, and magical being! I’ve had the pleasure to work with her and look forward to continuing our work of deep healing. I’ve enjoyed her work so much that I referred my father and my friends to her. I swear by my word, in which YOU MUST VISIT SHELBY! Her piercing insight and passionate heart invite you back home.

Tiffany

Yoga Teacher

Shelby is able to access places and spaces you may have no idea exist, uncovering and releasing issues that would otherwise keep you bound for lifetimes. As well as being amazingly effective, our sessions were fun, interesting and revealing. In our first session Shelby dealt so efficiently with my presenting issue. Within minutes it was clear to me that in that time she had achieved what years of counselling and psychotherapy could barely have left an impression on. At our second session I had no clear idea of my needs, and yet every area that Shelby touched on and dived into immediately resonated with me as the next step I was waiting for. I cannot recommend Shelby enough. if this type of work appeals to you then I can’t imagine that you could find better!!

Tracey M.

Educator

This is EXACTLY what I need right now.